How To Wash Cross Stitch Before Framing? And What Soap To Wash Cross Stitch?

Woh! Did you try it after doing the big cross stitch project? Well, I hate to break it to you, but you have more work to do, like framing, washing & mounting.

So yes! You need to wash your cross stitch. Not all the time, but most of the time. Washing will enhance the look of your stitch and make it shine. But how to wash cross stitch?

Do You Need To Wash Cross Stitch?

Yes, but it depends! Washing your cross stitch isn’t always necessary. But in most cases, it helps keep your project looking fresh and vibrant.

If you’ve handled your fabric a lot, you might have transferred oils from your hands, or there could be dust, dirt, or hoop marks. That’s why a wash is helpful.

What Soap To Wash Cross Stitch?

Is your cross marked as washable? Ok, then, it’s time to get the soap. But which soap to use? Well,

When I wash my cross stitch, I always use a gentle soap to keep the cross stitch fabric and colors safe. A tiny drop of Dawn dish soap works wonders for lifting dirt without being harsh.

No harsh detergents, no fading—just a nice, fresh stitch!

How To Wash Cross Stitch By Hand?

Ok, so I got my soap it’s time to wash, think. But remember, this technique is for before you frame the cross stitch. Here’s exactly how I do it:

I start by filling a basin or sink with warm water—not hot, just comfortably warm. Hot water can shrink or distort the fabric, so I make sure it’s just right. Then, I add a gentle soap. I usually go for:

I swirl the water to mix in the soap, ensuring it’s nice and sudsy but not too bubbly. You can use this mix of all different kinds of stitches in sewing to wash.

Now comes the delicate part! I gently place my cross-stitch into the water. I make sure the whole piece is submerged. Then, I lightly swish it with my fingers without scrubbing, twisting, or wringing. But be careful if you are dealing with beaded cross stitch patterns.

If I notice any stubborn marks (like where the hoop was),

Once my piece looks fresh and clean, it’s time to rinse the soap. I drain the soapy water and fill the basin with clean, lukewarm water. This works for my counted patterns, too.

Now that my cross-stitch is squeaky clean, I remove it from the water and lay it flat on a clean, dry towel. I never wring or twisting the fabric—it could damage the stitches or warp the design. Instead, I:

At this point, the piece is damp but not soaking wet.

Finally, I lay my cross-stitch flat on a fresh, dry towel, making sure it’s smoothed out and not bunched up. Then, I let it air dry overnight in a spot where it won’t be disturbed.

How To Wash Cross Stitch In Washing Machine?

Well, hand washing is the most proper way to wash cross stitches. But if you don’t have to do it manually, then rely on a machine. Here is how you can do it,

1. Use a Mesh Laundry Bag – I always place my cross-stitch inside a mesh laundry bag or pillowcase to protect the delicate stitches. This prevents it from getting tangled or damaged. It’s helpful, especially if you wash cross stitches with french knot.
2. Select a Gentle Detergent – I use a mild detergent, like Woolite or baby shampoo, to avoid harsh chemicals that might fade the colors or weaken the fabric.
3. Set the Washing Machine – I choose the gentlest cycle (delicate or hand-wash) with cold or lukewarm water to prevent shrinking or distortion.
4. Skip the Spin Cycle – The spinning motion can stretch or warp the fabric, so I turn off the spin cycle or use the lowest possible setting.
5. Remove and Lay Flat to Dry – I take out my cross-stitch and lay it flat on a clean towel as soon as the wash cycle is done. Then, I gently press another towel on top to absorb excess water.
6. Let It Air Dry – I leave it flat overnight in a well-ventilated area, avoiding direct heat or sunlight to prevent fading.

And that’s it. You will get a clean cross stitch to put the frame on in a few minutes.

What Is The Best Way To Wash Cross Stitches?

Honestly, hand-washing is always best for cross stitch. It works great in all methods. It’s way gentler on the fabric and stitches, plus I don’t have to stress about colors bleeding or threads getting snagged. 

Machine washing might seem easier, but the agitation can be too rough even on a delicate cycle. If I ever do use a machine (which is rare), I stick to a mesh bag, cold water, and the gentlest setting.

Hand-washing wins—it keeps my cross stitch looking fresh and perfect!

How To Clean Yellowed Cross Stitch?

Another time you need to clean your cross stitch is when your project gets stained. And if you are clumsy like me, then spelling things on the embroidery is nothing new. That’s how I got yellow stains in one of my patterns!😑

But if the stain is fresh, then one nice wash can remove it. Here is how I did it,

5. Submerge the fabric and let it sit for 30 minutes to 4 hours.
6. Gently rub stained areas with your fingertips (no scrubbing!).
7. Drain soapy water and refill with clean, lukewarm water.
8. Swish fabric around and repeat 2–3 times until water runs clear.
9. Lay cross-stitch on a clean towel and press gently with another towel.
10. Let it air dry completely—no wringing or twisting!
11. Soak in a hydrogen peroxide + water mix (1:10 ratio) for 30–60 mins.
12. Rinse well and dry as usual.

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And That’s It!

By the next day, my cross-stitch is clean, fresh, and slightly stiffer. It makes it easier to frame or finish. Up next? Ironing and mounting! But that’s a whole other story… 😉